Kami Tollini
Lightworkers Among Us
April 2026
If you had asked me a few years ago, “Who are you?” I would have given you my job title.
'"I’m a medical biller..."
But that was never really who I was. That was just what I did.
Learning to separate those two things has been one of the biggest shifts of my life. Because now, when people ask me that question, my answer feels completely different.
My Story
I tell them, “I’m an intuitive healer. I guide people back to themselves... through the elements, through the stars.”
And when I say it, my whole body lights up.
A year ago, I wouldn’t have been able to say that out loud.
I didn’t trust myself yet.
I didn’t think I had anything of value to offer. I had wanted to host circles for years, but I kept holding myself back. I thought, “Who am I to do this? Why would anyone come?”
And then, when I finally said yes... everything went wrong.
The first Starfire circle I hosted, I had it all planned. Music, structure, flow. I wanted it to be perfect.
None of it worked.
The music didn’t play. I didn’t have my script. I walked in minutes before people arrived, completely unprepared.
I remember thinking, “This is not how I want to show up.”
But I didn’t have a choice. I had to trust myself. I had to go off the cuff.
And looking back now... that was exactly what I needed.
That was the moment something shifted in me.
Starfire didn’t come out of nowhere.
For years, I had been feeling this pull. I just didn’t have the confidence to follow it.
A lot of that changed after I immersed myself in astrology and the elements. I took courses, I followed the breadcrumbs, and eventually I found myself in Boulder, Colorado, in this small, intimate group.
And I had a moment there that I’ll never forget.
I was sitting in a session, feeling completely lost in my life, asking, “What am I supposed to do?”
And someone looked at me and said, “How do you not know that you’re magic?”
I didn’t believe it.
I had seen reflections of myself through the people around me for years, but I didn’t trust it. Not
until that moment. Not until I was really seen.
That’s when everything started to change.
When we started Starfire, there were seven people.
Then eleven.
Then fifteen.
Eventually, we were holding twenty-four people in the room every month, and over a hundred people came through the space across the year.
But what matters isn’t the number.
It’s what happened inside those circles.
People didn’t just come once. We started doing life together. Watching each other transform.
Watching people step into their gifts.
There’s one person who came in at the very beginning of his journey... and now his entire life has expanded. His offerings, his confidence, everything. It’s night and day.
And witnessing that... it breaks me open.
Because I realize how long I held myself back from this.
From this magic.
What’s wild is... I wrote this life down before I ever lived it.
Years ago, I was in a business training, and they asked us to write a purpose statement.
I had no idea what to say.
All I could come up with was: “shine bright.”
It felt so small. So vague.
But I wrote it anyway:
“To empower others to see the light that shines within themselves.”
And then I forgot about it.
I didn’t know how I would ever live that.
And now... I’m doing exactly that.
Living your purpose is not what people think it is.
It’s overwhelming. In the best way.
It feels like standing at the edge of something vast, with the wind about to lift you.
It feels limitless.
But it also requires you to stop playing small.
And that part is hard.
It disrupts your life. Your relationships. Everything you thought was stable.
I’ve been with my partner for almost 25 years. And choosing this path has not been easy. There are real moments where you have to ask yourself, “Am I willing to keep choosing my purpose, even if it changes everything?”
And my answer is yes.
I’m no longer willing to shrink myself for comfort.
If I could say anything to someone who is just starting to feel that pull... those signs, those breadcrumbs...
It would be this:
Keep going.
Follow them.
You don’t need to know where they’re leading. You just need to take the next step.
And find support. Find people who can walk with you. Because doing this alone is hard.
But most importantly... trust yourself.
Everything you need is already within you.
I say this all the time, and I mean it:
“I don’t know what the f*** is happening... but I’m a willing participant.”
That’s how I live my life now.
I don’t need to have it all figured out. I just need to listen. To trust. To say yes when something calls me forward.
Because what I’ve learned is...
When you stop hiding your light,
it starts to find other people.
And light...
really does seek light.
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